i dont know how i should feel-HELP

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Registered: 09-28-2004
i dont know how i should feel-HELP
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Tue, 09-28-2004 - 10:16pm
I just found out that my boyfriend gave me chlamymia after going to an annual check-up. He is 29 years old and has never had an std test, a fact i only found out afterwards. im upset that he have me this and that he was inconsiderate to never have gotten tested. although, i know he did not give it to me intentionally, i am very hurt neverless. this situation is completely new to me since this is my only sexual partner. how should i handle this?
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 1:46pm
Do some research on the net, most STDs are hard to detect in males and most don't think to have a check up, annually, like us women do.

Vent your frustration, hurt, anger on paper. Write him UNSENT letters, telling him everything you feel. Then burn them.

If you can forgive and forget, fine. If not, you may end up ending the relationship at some point. My best to you.


Carrie