i dont know what else to do?
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i dont know what else to do?
| Mon, 05-24-2004 - 11:37am |
Ive been going out with a guy for about 11 months now, and ive just about come to my wits end.ok he has no job. hes dropped out of college. im just doing my exams at the moment. However he still has the check to complain he has no money! Ive tried to encourage him numerous times to gt a job, but hes jst so lazy and what with my studies aswell, I wana pull my hair out. He moans hes bored or he cant get a cd he wants, however what makes me laugh is that when he does get money from a relative or whatever he'll blow ALL OF IT!!!!!!!! on beer. Its really starting to make me mad now.I kinda feel like his mum, as I've spoken o him about it on numerous occasions as he sometimes gets abit down about it.But Iswear theres only so much i can do! Not only this but I dont have much self esteem anyway due to problems I had a couple of years ago which I have made him aware of as it sometimes still affects me. However lately when he gets drunk I really hate it, he’ll either be really insulting telling me to change my appearance, or just try and get me to hav sex with him. Right now all I want is for him to show me some love and affection. Ive tried talking to him about the comments he makes because they really did hurt me, but he just plays mind games and said ’I was only joking!' gosh your so touchy’ and now im doubting myself. I jst wanna sit down and cry. I wud be most grateful for any advice at all! Thank you so much

This man isn't responsible, doesn't work, nor does it sound like he wants to, he doesn't have the same ambition as you do. He spends his money on beer. He puts you down.
Since you know you have self-esteem issues, why not check out the counseling dept on campus and get help for yourself?
Carrie