Sizulya, I think this problem is yours to solve. Your husband isn't really asking for one weekend a year to spend with his friends, it sounds like he wants one weekend per month. That doesn't sound excessive, especially since you describe your husband as a very social person with many friends.
The actual problem here is that you have no other interests than reading (which is a fine interest, by the way, and one I share), and you are making your husband carry the burden of being your sole social outlet. You have to take care of yourself in this respect, and let your husband have some time to socialize on his own. Since you don't want the pep talk about clubs and hobbies, I won't start it, but I will say that you are going to need social contacts and things to do as the years go by. Your husband can't be your whole world all by himself.
One other thing: trying to prove that one of you is wrong and the other is right in this situation is guaranteed to stress your relationship. You can both be right, and just have different opinions about how to spend the weekends. If you TELL your husband that you understand his need to see his friends, and you think he should do so one weekend per month, you may find him happier to spend the other weekends with you.
Sizulya, I think this problem is yours to solve. Your husband isn't really asking for one weekend a year to spend with his friends, it sounds like he wants one weekend per month. That doesn't sound excessive, especially since you describe your husband as a very social person with many friends.
The actual problem here is that you have no other interests than reading (which is a fine interest, by the way, and one I share), and you are making your husband carry the burden of being your sole social outlet. You have to take care of yourself in this respect, and let your husband have some time to socialize on his own. Since you don't want the pep talk about clubs and hobbies, I won't start it, but I will say that you are going to need social contacts and things to do as the years go by. Your husband can't be your whole world all by himself.
One other thing: trying to prove that one of you is wrong and the other is right in this situation is guaranteed to stress your relationship. You can both be right, and just have different opinions about how to spend the weekends. If you TELL your husband that you understand his need to see his friends, and you think he should do so one weekend per month, you may find him happier to spend the other weekends with you.
You read my mind.
Sizulya, you can't complain that you are upset that you don't have hobbies and then ask us not to advise you to get one.
If you take responsibility for your free time, your husband will be happier and so will you.