I DONT WANT HIM TO LOOK STUPID WITH ME

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2007
I DONT WANT HIM TO LOOK STUPID WITH ME
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Sat, 05-19-2007 - 11:44am
Hi,
i really need your advice before i find myself without a boyfriend. Ok, myself and my boyfriend were going out for 18 months (im 19 hes 18). we split up because he cheated on me but now were back together for the past 6 weeks. Here is my problem, his best mates birthday is next this weekend. He wants me to go with him. Dont get me wrong im a mad party animal myself and i never turn down a chance to have a laugh but im not the best person for mixing with people i dont know. I will no a maximum of 2 maybe 3 people there and thats it. I upset him 2 weeks ago bacause he invited to to a friends 18th but i bottled out at the last minute saying my parents wouldnt allow me to go. im usually really confident but i keep thinking im going to look an idiot or make him look an idiot cuz hes with me. i have no self esteem when it comes to making friends, it just doesnt happen for me! how can i get over this, his friends are asking questions to why he is going alone to all these parties and he keeps getting thick with me. i just wish he would understand dat i dnt want to make a fool out of either of us (i def wudnt drink in these circumstances!) but just being there will send off the wrong vibes. last night he had to collect a friend, i was too scared to go with him cuz i kept wondering wot his friend wud say wen e say me. this is such a mess!! please will sum1 reply!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 05-19-2007 - 9:56pm

Welcome to the board ard_allez_diamond,


I'm going to be straight to the point with you, k?