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i hate my husband
| Sun, 01-11-2004 - 10:38pm |
My husband I have been married for 3 mts. but we've lived together for 10 yrs. I really thought I was doing the right thing when I married him. (I even prayed about it first) But now I realize I was just settleing because he has always been mean and grumpy and cold. We have 1 child together and I have a child from a past marriage. But my hubby is mean to him too. He doesn't hurt him physically but ignores him and bosses him around.He acts like he never does anything wrong and blames me for all of our problems. He rarely says he's sorry or that he's wrong unless I beg and beg and then he doesn't mean it. I admit when I'm wrong (and sometimes when I'm not) and apoligize for my mistakes and I really thought if I showed him love it would be contagious but it's not. I've left him twice before but the last time I got cancer and came back and he took advantage of my being vulnerable and sick and talked me into staying. He doesn't beat me or cheat on me but those are his only good qualities. I would probably have left already but right now I have nowhere to go because of money he's out of work (another story) and I'm disabled so he's also at home with me all day driving me nuts. And he is so close to our youngest son. By the way I'm 33 my hubby is 45 and the boys are 10 and 7. HELP!! Does it even pay to stay?

Carrie
My thaughts & prayers are with you!
friends and family can be supportive up to a point. its really up to YOU to make the necessary changes. and i know how hard it is.