I lied and he's walking

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Registered: 10-22-2007
I lied and he's walking
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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 10:32pm
Ok, Ive been dating this man for almost a year. He lives with another friend, and after some stuff happened I actually moved in with his mom till i could get on my feet.. About 2 months after we started talkin I told a lil white lie and he forgave me. I promised him Id never lie to him again and he didn't stop talkin to me. Hes REALLY big on honestly, and with me being 100% with him. Well this whole time I thought he knew how many people Id been with. And come to find out Sat night he didn't know. Well I told him about one person and knew he was kinda angry that i lied to him bout it, and there were
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 12:04am

Quite simply, you lied because you don't like the truth.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 1:25am

Welcome to the board kandilady84,


Ok, I had a really hard time following all that....


::1 of the guys was abusive, we only dated about a month, only had sex twice, and the other was the only person i absolutely regret and it was a one time thing, so when i talk about having sex with my exes or somethin like that, i wasnt tryin to hide them, i just never brought them up. i took them completely out of my head.. and whats bad is thats the truth, i just dont think bout them, i was never tryin to hide them from him..


Why are you talking about having sex with exes?

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 7:05am
I agree that talking about sex with ex boyfriends is not a necessary conversation and if he's walking out on you for this, then he's probably not the kind of guy you want to be with.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 7:44am
I also lied to my bf of 3.5 years...and we have been trying to work things out for 2 months and we cant. He said things just arent the same. I am a big believer in honesty, but also in working things out when times are hard....I wish you the best of luck.