I lied to my bestfriend...now what?
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I lied to my bestfriend...now what?
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 2:31pm |
Ok here is the situation. I lied to my bestfriend. It was stupid and the first time I have ever done it. He had always told me that he never had any use for people he couldn't trust. He hasn't talked to his cousin in over a year for lying. I knew this and I had never lied till now and it was over his brother. It wasn't a big lie but it was a lie. He asked if I saw his brother out and I said I did and tried to call him to let him know when in reality I had went and picked him up. He said he was upset with me and that he didn't want to talk to me "right now". I know I did this. I know I was the cause of this. I know this is my fault. But do I try to call him or just wait it out to see if he ever calls me again? And if I do call is there really anything I can say that would make it better? BTW I am female, he is male.

Perhaps a little time will heal the wounds from the lie you told...assuming the fact that you're willing to permit yourself a little space from each other? BUT...
If there's no communication between you after 2 weeks, find the best snail mail friendship card you can...write a short note inside (nothing mushy please)...but indicate that a portion of your life is absolutely VOID without him around. Let the man know that you'd like to see him again and would like another opportunity to date him again.
The ball is now in his court...and if he still ignores you...this is NOT the man you want to spend the rest of your life with...since it's a pretty good indication of the way he'll deal with other issues with you in the future.
My prayers and thoughts are with you today...
Pianoguy