I love him but he lies!
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I love him but he lies!
| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 3:13pm |
I'm in a relationship with a younger man. He's not divorced yet, has three kids and treats me like a queen. The only problem I have is that he lies about calling his soon-to-be ex. He says he doesn't care anything about her anymore (their relationship broke up due to her infidelity). He is now living with me and is home every night. But why does he have to keep calling her? He says it's because of the kids, which I'm sure that is true most of the time. She begged him to go back to her but he said no, he was happy where he was.
As far as I know, he doesn't lie about anything else.
Can anybody help me understand this?

Pianoguy has NO SYMPATHY for you at all.
The man is MARRIED...and it doesn't matter if he is seeing you (and a hundred other women) because he's still TAKEN! The "kids" could actually be within your age perimeter! Assuming there really ARE children at home...he's quite a role model, isn't he?
Are you THAT DESPERATE that you'd take in a man who still has 'past emotional baggage?'
Here's something to kick around...how many other women do you think he has lied to in the past? And if the 2 of you ever became REALLY SERIOUS...which I doubt...how long would it take before he'd make excuses not to "come home" to you?
Dump him and find someone who isn't spoken for!
Pianoguy