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I Love You?
| Wed, 02-11-2004 - 2:16pm |
Is their a problem if my boyfreind of 1 year still hasn't told me he loves me?
He told me it might take him some time, but if he didn't see a future with me he wouldn't be with me. My concern is, how long ahould I wait - a year can be a short time or a long time.
He told me it might take him some time, but if he didn't see a future with me he wouldn't be with me. My concern is, how long ahould I wait - a year can be a short time or a long time.
I did bring it up a couple of time in our relationship but I had been drinking!

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JMHO!
The way this guy treats you is going to speak louder than saying I love you all of the time.If he treats you well, makes you happy- thats what should be important.Maybe he's a little shy about saying those words and will come around in time.
If he's just an all - around- kinda- guy-not-to -show- his-affection-for- you, you may want to re think being with him, people are who they are, its hard to change someone.
James
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Carrie
Great, so you will never say it first and what if he has had the same experience and you both never say it?
Listen, the words are just words, and yes saying the words is an action, but if he is not comfortable saying it, but you can FEEL loved by him then you know he loves you even if HE isn't ready to put that label on it yet.
James
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