I Love You? - to someone else?
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I Love You? - to someone else?
| Sat, 04-17-2004 - 11:28am |
I was out of town on vacation with my boyfriend recently. He had an old classmate that he's known for about 3 years that was also there. Originally they were suppose to meet up, but he forgot to call her and she had left already by then. So he left her a voicemail basically saying he forgot etc etc, but he ended it saying "I Love You" to her like 2 times. Is that normal? When I heard this I was really upset, still am and throw it in his face.
I felt like it was totally disrespectful to say "I Love You" to another woman. He claims it's because he's a loving person, was raised that way, where as I was not raised to freely say "I Love You".
I'm just looking for a reality check. To me the words "I Love You" are sacred. Not just freely thrown and tossed around.

It is impossible to change the past. He has stated his position and you have stated yours. Neither position is 100% right or 100% wrong. If you can't accept this difference then break up. He will likely be more sensitive to your position going forward, but do not expect to change him.