I need advice about a cheating boyfriend
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I need advice about a cheating boyfriend
| Sat, 08-11-2007 - 12:39am |
I know this sounds weird, but I found out that my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years cheated on me with at least 10 different girls on several occassions. His ex-friend called me to tell me. Well, I confronted him and he lied at first. I then told him not to call me unless he was willing to be honest. He then confessed to everything. I'm still with him. I know, why? I ask myself that everyday. I feel like I'm mad at every girl he cheated on me with. He says I should "get over it and quit obsessing about it". I'm so mad at myself for putting up with this crap. He says that he won't "leave me alone" and that we "really love each other and are happy when we are together". I'm mad, hurt and I feel I deserve better. What is the best way to get him out of my life for good?

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Speaking to her is not a great idea.
I think it's obvious that you caught your husband in an affair; deal with him and not her. "I don't know how it got there" is the lamest excuse I have ever heard.
Yes, you are probably right. Its up to me now to decide how I'm going to move on. He is my only source of income right now. The business I'm in is flat now. I'm currently looking for another line of work.
I've caught him in other questionable situations and always accepted his explanations. So after 35yrs of marriage to him and two daughters later. I've had enough of his lies. I have to admit that I'm so scared. I don't really know what to do first. I don't know how to tell our daughters. Should I tell them or let him tell them?
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