I need advise

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Registered: 06-12-2007
I need advise
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Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:08pm

Can you please give me your feed back on this.

I have been dating a man for 4 months now. He has a 18 year old daughter at home and has never asked me to meet her. He has met my daughter. Do you find that strange?

He seems very much into me. We are great together. O.K give feed back.....

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Wed, 06-13-2007 - 11:56am

It's very possible that he may feel a bit guilty about introducing a new woman to his daughter. These things do take time. He may want to be very sure about the relationship before taking what may be a big step to him. It's only been four months. Give it time for things between you to deepen. After six months or so, you could bring it up lightly to him. If you are hoping that this grows into a marriage or into living together, then you have to make sure that he's thinking the same way. Is he? As time passes a bit more find out what his hopes and goals for the relationship are. Then you'll have more understanding where his daughter fits into things.


All good wishes,


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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 4:26pm

Welcome to the board muffingirl2007,


He may not like to introduce new women to his daughter. Or maybe his daughter has a hard time excepting him dating and so he doesn't like to introduce to her the women he dates. Just ask him about it.

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Wed, 06-13-2007 - 8:29pm
You know what you bring up some points I had not thought about. Thank you.
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Wed, 06-13-2007 - 8:32pm
Thank you...you make perfect sense!