I need help ....

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2003
I need help ....
2
Sat, 06-12-2004 - 2:15pm

Hi all,


I've never posted to this message board but I sure am happy that I found it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2003
Sat, 06-12-2004 - 4:03pm
If you are in fear of what he might do, GET AWAY from him. You should get help from the police this guy sounds very dangerous. The most important thing is to ensure that you and your daughter are safe. You say he never hit you yet, Does it matter, you are scared of him. He has emotionally beaten you that is abuse. Good luck Jessica

Also you might try to post this at the Domestic Abuse board

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2004
Sat, 06-12-2004 - 5:32pm
Posting your message for all to see is a start for you. I've read and re-read your letter and I think you should try to do that also. Look at what you wrote from someone else's view and you might see what you need to do. I've been in a similar situation and know that everyone has a line of what we can all take. I hope you can see your line before anything horrible happens. I was mentally and physically abused and I blamed myself "I made this bed so now I have to lie in it" It never got any better and it would have gotten worse. I left and didn't go back. If you think he can be a better person to you and your child, you still have hope.

Have you talked with friends and family? You can be a strong person - you made it thru child birth didn't you! just a joke not a slam to you!

I hope you have someone you can turn to, you are a person too! you are Someone's mommy who is needing you to make life OK.

Good luck and God bless