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| Thu, 06-03-2004 - 4:36pm |
Hi, ive been seeing my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years, he lives about 3 miles away but i only see him friday's and saturday's, (nights not days) we keep having the same discussion about not seeing each other he says he will make more of an effort but never does, i live with my 2 children and he lives with his dad, i never get invited round to his house, this is making me feel very unhappy, i love him very much but can't go on like this, what is his problem, and now ive found out i'm pregnant i want the baby but not sure if its the right thing to do as i don't think things will change, as i right this he is signed into msn but never holds a conversation with me we hardly speak in the week. i'm really desperate now for help.
thanks cath

Okay - first things first. You and the baby and the kids. I think you should get good prenatal care and take good care of yourself and the kids. Try to get your life organized now while you have the time. I know it is hard but since you are a mom you know that a baby is a precious gift. Try to focus on that.
As for him - he is not meeting your needs or willing to try to meet them so you should give him an ultimatum about the relationship. You will also have to tell him about the baby. He will have to pony up some child support - you should look into this with a local attorney.
Good luck to you and be strong.
Good Luck in whatever you do!
Think about what is right for you. Can you handle a third child on your own? If abortion is out for you what about adoption?