I Need Help

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Registered: 03-11-2008
I Need Help
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 10:05am

My girlfriend and I just recently broke up. We had been dating for 1

Confused & Hurt.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: wantherback
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 1:11pm

Welcome to the board wantherback,


Would she go to counseling with you at your church?

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In reply to: wantherback
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 1:19pm
Well we both met with our pastor separately in the past week. She called and we talked about what our pastor spoke to us about and we both agree that her advice wasn't able to help us. I would think that she would read some books to help but I think that she doesn't want to look back at our relationship. She has said that she doesn't want to fix our relationship and but she said that doesn't mean we won't get back together later. I'm just really confused.
Confused & Hurt.
Confused & Hurt.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: wantherback
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 1:33pm

::She has said that she doesn't want to fix our relationship and but she said that doesn't mean we won't get back together later.


So to me, this means means she's not willing to engage in a meaningful relationship, work through issues and work together as a couple?

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In reply to: wantherback
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 1:38pm
I think it is good that both of you talked to your pastor, but I think it would be more helpful if you went and talked with the pastor together. Then she could get a better picture about everything. I think it is worth