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| Thu, 08-02-2007 - 2:02pm |
I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP GOING ON 2 YEARS NOW AND NOW MY BF SAYS AFTER US FIGHTING CONSTANTLY FOR THE PAST 3 MONTHS THAT HE CAN'T BE AROUND ME IF I DON'T SEEK COUNSELING. IT ALL STARTED WHEN A PERSON OUT OF THE BLUE CALLED ME AND TOLD ME MY BF HAD SLEPT WITH HIS WIFE. I WAS SO FURIOUSE WITHOUT LISTENING TO HIS SIDE OF THE STORY I KICKED HIM OUT. WELL HIS BOSS AND FRIENDS KEPT TELLING ME IT DIDN'T HAPPEN SO I LET HIM COME BACK AND HE CONSTANTLY KEPT THROWING IT UP IN MY FACE HOW COULD I BELEIVE TOTAL STRANGERS AND NOT HIM THEN 2 MONTHS LATER HE TEXTED ME TELLING ME HE WAS MAILING MY OUR APARTMENT KEY AND CHANGING HIS NUMBER THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO SPEAK TO ME AGAIN AND THEN A FEW DAYS LATER HE EMAILED ME SAYING IT WAS A BIG MISTAKE. EVERYTHING SEEMS TO ALWAYS BE MY FAULT I LOVE HIM AND WANT OUR RELATIONSHIP TO WORK BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW IT COULD. CAN ANYONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON THIS SITUATION. ON OUR CURRENT SITUATION IS THE HE SAYS I AM A PHSYCO AND THAT I NEED HELP I THINK I AM JUST HURT BY ALL THE REJECTION. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP.

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If this counselor is not working for you and helping then you need to find another one. But you need to be honest with the counselor and let them know everything you are feeling. It takes time and won't happen overnight. Wish you luck.
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