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| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 2:05pm |
i could not get to see my fiance much one week and she started feeling lonely.
so she went to a chat room got a guys number snd started texting him, thn she started havin text sex sending pictures of her etc. She came over on the friday to stay and was texting him when she was here. eventually she told me what she was doing. im sure my heart stopped. ever since then i cant stop wondering if she did it before or is going to do it again. i love her and dont know what to do we had been trying for a baby and she may be pregnant. what should i do.
so she went to a chat room got a guys number snd started texting him, thn she started havin text sex sending pictures of her etc. She came over on the friday to stay and was texting him when she was here. eventually she told me what she was doing. im sure my heart stopped. ever since then i cant stop wondering if she did it before or is going to do it again. i love her and dont know what to do we had been trying for a baby and she may be pregnant. what should i do.

First, I think you need to stop trying to have a child if she isn't pregnant already. Her behavior is very extreme seeing as you couldn't see her much for one week. If she is like this before you even get married, how are things going to be down the road. I think you need to reconsider the relationship.
If you want to stay together, insist that she goes to marriage counseling with you.
If she is pregnant, and you break up, Get a paternity test, and get child custody and support court ordered.
*edited to correct grammer mistake
Edited 3/13/2007 3:49 pm ET by cl-ctara19811
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Hi mrl88 and welcome to the board.
could you giv me any more advice in the matter and what i should say. Thanks
You could always write her a letter if you feel more comfortable that way. Just let her know how she made you feel, that you still love her, and that you want to go to pre-marital counseling with her in order to strengthen your relationship.
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The thing is she is my first girlfriend/love & Lover. I still really love her and dont want things to end. I know i need to speak to her and but i dont know how to go about it/ what to say/ and do it without hurting her. you see im no looker, im overweight( although trying to change that) dont have money or experience and dont want to lose her at all.
She is honestly the best thing that has happened to me as i have not been happier and quite a few people have noticed this. What should i do.
thank you cl-ctara19811.
I really mean it, thank you very much. you have helped me so much. have a great life and hope you tackle all that gets thrown your way. TTTTTTTTTHHHHHHAAAAAAANNNNNKKKKKSSSSS.
Miles
You are welcome, and please feel free to post on the board at anytime.
Also remember that you deserve to be loved and treated with respect.
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Hi again,
If love conquered all, none of us would be here.
any more advice is still wanted from anyone.