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I need help on a decision
| Tue, 05-04-2004 - 12:02pm |
Hi my name is Elizabeth and i need help as soon as possible. I am mexican and came to US when i was 13 yrs old. I met a guy at a night club who is from Turky and we been together for almost 2 yrs. We were very happy together having problems sometimes but happy to be together.We used to talk about marriage, kids and having a stable life in the US. However, I accidently got pregnant 2 months ago and he suddenly change his mind about everything. He pressured me so much telling that he didn't know what to do because he want a better life for me and our kids. For he mentioned that he want to go back to his Country which is Turky. I was surprised becaue he never told me that. He made me feel so sad on all the things he said about change of plans. I got sick and he made me go get an abortion because it was better for both. So its been 2 weeks with so much pain because he doesn't not want to stay and i don't want to go with him. I tried all to talk to him about our plans but nothing in return all he says is i don't what to do.I asked him about our marriage plans and he says i don't know eigther. Please help me to find my way i am destroyed, I really love this man with all my heart and soul. I feel he loves me too. What should i do? or how can i be strong over this matter? Please advice me. Thank you so much for giving me

Sometimes people are too homesick and can't enjoy the life they have created here. Sometimes they know they aren't staying, but want love, companionship and sex so they get involved, fall in love, or at least enjoy the time they have, yet their priorities are different, expectations are different and the committment level is different.
Again, I'm sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie