I need help I am falling apart
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I need help I am falling apart
| Tue, 11-06-2007 - 12:42pm |
My g/f and I lived across the street growing up together. It was not till her family moved away that we started dating. We dated for 3 years then got engaged. Last Friday she broke it off.

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Welcome to the board s174153,
Give her the time and space she asked for.
If you're looking for spiritual answers... don't let your relationship run the show. These sort of things are very personal and if you can share them with a partner then it's wonderful, but you need to be at a certain spiritual place with yourself, not for her.
The best thing you can do now is to back off. I know it goes against every instinct you have, but reaching out to her right now is the thing that will most hurt your chances of having her again. You shouldn't have to prove your religious worth to her. If she really wants to be with you, she'll be with you regardless of your relationship with god. That's not part of your relationship with her, it's private, and for her to judge your worth as a boyfriend based on that is not right of her. Still... She's entitled to her feelings and it should be respected.
Regardless of your religion, there is a force of nature that makes things happen for a reason and dictates that situations will resolve themselves the way they are meant to. If she doesn't come back, then it wasn't meant to be. Perhaps she needs time to reflect on a life without you, and she will realize what you mean to her soon enough.
Welcome to the board s174143,
All you can do now is continue to give her to space she wants. When she is ready she will contact you. Did she break up with you for good or just say she needed some time?
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All you can do now is just wait and see what she does.
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I sent her and e-mail back with the following
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