I need help!!!!!!!!!!!11
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I need help!!!!!!!!!!!11
| Mon, 02-09-2004 - 12:07pm |
Ok I am hoping I can get some help for everyone. I am having some problems (what I think are problems) with my husband. I am feeling all he is interested in is his video games and sports. When we were dating it was wonderful I felt I was important to him but now I do not feel at all important. I am so upset I don't even want to be in the same room as him can someone help me.
Renee'

I suppose you could always blow up the BIG SCREEN TV MONITOR and that would get your husband to notice you more?
But ask yourself if the problem was present while you two were dating?
More than likely...his attention has shifted from YOU to the VIDEO GAME and THE SPORTING ARENA for a few reasons? Do you nag him? Have you noticed any additional stress connected with his work? What about his diet?
You really have to give us more to work with here. Provide some information and I'll bet you'll receive some great ivillage responses?
Pianoguy
yes, we do need more details. here are just a few questions -
do you work outside the house? do you have friends and interests of your own? do you do things on your own - or do you always look toward your husband to do things with him?
does your dh work full time outside the house? does HE have friends and other interests?
who does the housework and chores?
and while you were dating - what was "wonderful". how did you feel "important" to him? did you live together before you got married?
Have you discussed with him the need to have a weekly date night out of the house? Or to start a hobby together? Or do something together - cook a meal together, rent a movie and watch it together, read a book together? Or are you just hanging out at home, hoping and wishing he'll want to spend some time with you? Talk to him.
Carrie