I need him to leave.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2011
I need him to leave.
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Wed, 10-12-2011 - 4:17pm

Hello,

I visit this board today deeply distraught about my situation. I have 2 daughters from a previous relationship. I am currently dating Walter and due to have his son. I am very stressed because Walter hasn't worked in an entire year. He has not worked because he is too lazy to put forth the effort to find a job. He LOVES to stay home, watch tv and relax. He also has a drinking problem, that he is working on. He has been sober for 3 weeks now.

I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND, that this situation is my fault for allowing myself to be involved

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 1:02pm

I agree with the others.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 12:49am

Of course he can stay home and take care of the kids.

A househusband can be a boon.

Goldfish

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 8:20am

Sure, and because childbirth is "gross" he will be really likely to change a diaper.

Because he is too lazy for a job, he will be likely to get off his arse and help.

Did you even read the post or what

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Registered: 06-06-2006
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 9:12am

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 11:38am

A guy like this is not a good candidate for a stay at home dad because he is lazy--he wouldn't be a responsible caretaker.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 2:28pm

Oh Crabby :smileyvery-happy:

Goldfish

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 11:02pm

My thoughts too To me it is nothing more than a way to gain power and control; over another person.

Goldfish

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 11:57pm

You're a typical abused woman.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 11:33pm

If looking at an ultrasound "grosses him out"

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 11:38pm
Personally, I don't buy the whole "grosses me out" excuse. I think he's just too lazy to get off his arse and go to the appointments with her.