i need input please

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Registered: 09-24-2007
i need input please
Fri, 12-14-2012 - 5:59pm
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 12-14-2012 - 7:41pm

Sounds like your husband basically neglected you sexually because he preferred his porn. You felt lonely and neglected and turned to another man. You have to decide whether you truly want to work this out with your H or not. That will mean totally giving up the other man and a complete committment to working on your marriage. Good Luck

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Registered: 08-09-2012
Fri, 12-14-2012 - 9:37pm

you might want to put this on the affairs boards. They're set up to handle these issues.

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Registered: 12-06-2012
Sat, 12-15-2012 - 12:37am
I'm not sure I understand. You are in a marriage where you're never intimate, rarely affectionate, and you don't spend time together? What exactly is the appeal of staying married, then? From what you've posted here, it doesn't sound like you even *like* your husband much anymore. At any rate, if you want to stay married, you need to stop sleeping with other people and get yourself into counseling ASAP.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 12-15-2012 - 7:27pm

  It depends on wheather you want a lover and a husband or a new husband that you hope is a lover.


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Fri, 02-14-2014 - 5:01pm
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