I NEED SOME ADVICE :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2008
I NEED SOME ADVICE :(
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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 1:31pm

ok here goes..... I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 years.. we have a son that is going to be four in a couple of months. We have gone thru a lot of stuff but always gotten back together. I really do love

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 1:54pm

Welcome to the board sad_n_confused2008,


Well in my opinion there are two reasons why I wouldn't be with him anymore. The first is when you got the apartment. If he really wanted to live with you he would have lived with you regardless of the apt and where it was located. The second thing is he is lying to you about what happened with this girl and he is doing it on purpose. He can't be trusted.


I would make sure to get child support and custody worked out and end your romantic relationship with him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 3:11pm

This guy sounds awful and my heart really goes out to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 4:15pm

Welcome to the board sad_n_confused2008,


I have to say I agree with Coltara.


Reading material to consider:


How to Get Over Your Breakup - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21181.1



Relationship Grieving Process - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22985.1



For the future:


Are You the One for Me? Barbara DeAngelis


Do Not Touch, Talk to, Marry or Otherwise Fiddle with Frogs, by Nailah Shami



Sorry you are going through this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 6:36pm

Unfortunately he got mixed up with another woman and is trying to tell you something just to get you to stay with him.