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I need some advice
| Thu, 06-03-2004 - 1:02pm |
Me and my girlfriend have been together for about three and a half years now and lately all we do is fight. I know that we have a huge communication probleme witch is partly my fault because when ever I say something it never comes out right. So lately for about the past month she's been talking to another guy a couple of times a day every day. and since she has to drive to another town every day so I bought her a cell phone. I've checked her incomeing and out going calls and I seen that she's been calling him on her way to work at work during her brakes and a few times on her way home. When I asked her about it she got mad and stared saying that I don't trust her and that there just friends nothing more. She swore that she would never leave me for him but now she wnts to spend time apart and see other people, but she doesn't want me to move out but she does want me to stay with my parrents for a couple of days. Does this mean she's just trying to ease me out the door so she can bring some one else in to replace me even though her and her son both say the love me.
Another strange comment she made was she still want to spend the rest of our lives together just not right now.
What should I do?
Another strange comment she made was she still want to spend the rest of our lives together just not right now.
What should I do?

I know that I have been takeing her for granted but for the longest time I kept telling her I cant read her mind and she needs to try to be completely open and blunt with me
I don't pick up on little signals. I lover her so much but I just can't help feeling like we arn't going to be together for much longer. I've tryed to talk to her but she just gets mad at me. Even when we try talking like friends nothing to do with our relationship it seems like she trys to pick fights with me. but then 2 min. later she's my best friend again. Her son is'nt helping me out any either he keeps telling me that he misses me and that me him and mommy are going to moe far far away.
I'm such a mess right now I don't even know my head from ass and it's affecting every thing I do my boss has even noyiced that my head just isn't at work where it should be.