I need some answers

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Registered: 02-16-2004
I need some answers
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Wed, 06-09-2004 - 10:54am
My bf and I have been living together for the past year with his mother. We rented a 2 bedroom apartment and split everything 3 ways. The lease on the apartment is up August 1 and some decisions have to be made concerning where we are moving because his mother is not moving with us this time. A few months ago, he suggested that he move with his dad and I with my mom so we could save money. I nixed the idea and last week we talked about getting an apartment and nothing came up about moving in with our parents again until today. I am quite upset about this as I attend college full time and can't move back in with my mom since her place is to small and my dad lives out of state. My bf is worried he can't afford the rent which of course will be higher since it would be split in half instead of 3 ways. I don't know what to do. It seems like its always about money. He has a good job and I pay my own way so I don't know what the problem is here. His work was slow during the winter months and he got behind on some of his bills while he was collecting unemployment. Any help or suggestions on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated. The way he told me was by text messaging me on my cell phone.

Thanks for any help

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 10:33am
I am not trying to be rude or disrespectful in this post but perhaps you didn't read my post that I posted this morning. First, it wasn't via e-mail it was by text messaging on a cell phone and we sat down last night and talked this all through. Read post 10 and you will understand. Also I am in college he isn't and he wants to continue living together.


Edited 6/10/2004 10:35 am ET ET by swtpea21

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