I need some HELP!! I feel LOST!
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I need some HELP!! I feel LOST!
| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 1:17pm |
I decided to delete my post, but i would like to thank everyone who has posted. Thank you for your time and concern
sincerely
xoxocasexoxo
Edited 3/11/2004 11:07 am ET ET by xoxocasexoxo

Consider posting on the Recognizing and Dealing with Domestic Abuse support board....they can give you a ton of resources. http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rldomesting
You are stuck because you don't see a way out and you don't believe you deserve better. You need to work on your self-esteem and get out of there. Find a roommate situation where the house work and bills is split 50-50. Get back in school and make use of the free counseling available on campus.
Reading material to consider:
Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse
How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Brandon
The Aladdin Factor, Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen
Healing the Scars of Emotional Abuse -- Gregory L. Jantz
No Visible Wounds: Identifying Nonphysical Abuse of Women by Their Men by Mary Susan
Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
The Verbal Abusive Relationships by Dr. Patricia Evans
My best to you.
Carrie
I know that it is hard to think about leaving him because you have shared so much together and it hurts. Many of us have been there before. But many of us would also not be where we are today if we did not get rid of the person who was dragging us down in our lives.
Don't let his family make you feel like a piece of crap. Ignore them and hold your head high.
I know it seems hopeless at the moment but please try to find a way out. You don't need all these stresses in your life.
madflava518@yahoo.com
hi honey! I hope you will take some of the advice given to you here - i really hate to see someone just throw their life away cause of some lazy guy.
sweetie! he doesn't love you. people who love - don't treat their loved ones this way. and i doubt that you really love him, maybe more like