i screwed up

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Registered: 08-08-2005
i screwed up
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Thu, 12-27-2007 - 12:07pm
dh and i have the same comp at home...no passwords...well, my ds has been home from collage and has been on and off our comp doing things.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: cedar04
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 12:14pm

It's called self-sabotage, and it can be pretty severe for some women. I think most or all of us have done it to a degree; sometimes we do it because we're bored, or there is some deeper unhappiness we are trying to get out, and sometimes we do it to stir things up for a little bit of attention because anger and sadness definitely gets attention.

He just doesn't want to be spied on - and he obviously trusted you until you told him. Use this as an opportunity to force him to stop. You trust him, don't look for things to get upset about. If it gets really bad, consider talking to a therapist. Also, there is a Snooping and Jealousy board that is pretty good about this sort of content.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: cedar04
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 3:51pm

Welcome back to the board cedar04,


Have you consider getting into some individual counseling to help you with this issue.

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