i snooped and got caught :O
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i snooped and got caught :O
| Fri, 04-09-2004 - 11:03pm |
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 and a hlf years. he has lied to me in the past and at times i have a hard time trusting that he is always telling me the truth. So i have looked thru his cell phone...which he found out. Then (months later) i was looking thru a box of his receipts and found him in another white lie. i confronted him about it and made up a story of how i found out...he felt bad. Until he figured out i had snooped in his stuff and found the receipt. I had forgiven him for the lie but now he can't seem to forgive me for this....is this so reprehensible and unforgivable? He says he has never loked thru anything of my things, but i have never given him any reason to doubt me. He is so angry he said it's over. we both messed up....how do i make this better, or should i not bother. please help....any advice or comments would be helpful at this point. Do i call or leave him be for now?
Edited 4/9/2004 11:05 pm ET ET by imtorn2
Edited 4/9/2004 11:05 pm ET ET by imtorn2

When Your Lover is a Liar, Susan Forward
My best to you, sorry you have to go through this. I hope someone else has some good advice for you.
Carrie
ok so he "lies" (as a way of life), and instead of 'fessing up and making amends - he is putting the responsibility on YOU because YOU snooped (and you lied too.)
does this sound like a basis to a healthy relationship? i think not.