I think he is Mr. Right ...

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2004
I think he is Mr. Right ...
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Thu, 02-05-2004 - 3:53pm
I think he is my Mr. Right, he says we are incompatible, but each time I ask him how we are incompatible, he gives a different excuse, first was I have responsibilities, as I have two daughters, that will be out on their own in about 5 years and he does not want any responsibilities. The second excuse was, he says that we cannot communicate and it is not there for him. I find it easy to talk to him and can tell him anything. Am I nuts or should I give up? I believe with everything I have he is the one for me. that he is it for me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2003
Thu, 02-05-2004 - 4:19pm
Maybe he simply does not feel the same way you do. he is not as involved as you think. Maybe for him it is not that easy to communicate. Look, it seems to me that this guy is saying he does not want to commit to you. Instead of trying to change his mind, you are probably better off saying "adios" and looking for someone else...
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Thu, 02-05-2004 - 4:27pm
If he thinks you are incompatible then you are. Period. It takes two to make a relationship work.

How can someone who doesn't want responsibilities be Mr Right to someone with teenage kids?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Thu, 02-05-2004 - 5:51pm
If something is meant to be it will happen all on it's own. There should be no real efforts or stress involved to be with 'the right one'. If you find that you have to work to stay with him than it's not worth it at all. He's not your 'Mr. Right'. I'd give it up so you are available when your 'Mr. Right' actually does come along. You don't want to miss him just because you were wasting time on a man who is clearly not for you or your girls.

Jennifer

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