I could use some good advice.
It doesn't sound like you two have very much in common.
Yes, you're expecting way too much.
I don't ski either and I"m not about to start now since I tried it when I was much younger and couldn't do it then.
If I remember, you were the one that wondered if you were always expecting too much too soon?
In this case, I agree, one doesn't get into a relationship wanting to be second fiddle to someone else's hobbies.
Mom_lovetodance, it's not that he's not too busy for a relationship.