I think My boyfriend is too busy for a relationship

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Registered: 07-09-2010
I think My boyfriend is too busy for a relationship
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Sat, 01-07-2012 - 10:15am

Hi

I could use some good advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002

It doesn't sound like you two have very much in common.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009

Yes, you're expecting way too much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

I don't ski either and I"m not about to start now since I tried it when I was much younger and couldn't do it then.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2007

If I remember, you were the one that wondered if you were always expecting too much too soon?

In this case, I agree, one doesn't get into a relationship wanting to be second fiddle to someone else's hobbies.

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Registered: 12-22-2007

Mom_lovetodance, it's not that he's not too busy for a relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
I agree with the others... I am sorry. It sounds like you are not right for one another. Sometimes in spite of how you feel for a person, he may just not be a good fit. You deserve a boyfriend whose life you complement, and vice versa, rather than a boyfriend who would need to make radical changes in order to accommodate a relationship. For what its worth, I don't think this guy has enough time or focus to accommodate anyone - it's not just you.