I WANT TO GET BACK WITH MY EX
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I WANT TO GET BACK WITH MY EX
| Sun, 03-18-2007 - 2:31am |
BACK IN DEC 06 ME AND MY BOYFRIEND GOT INTO A HUGE ARGUEMENT AND I LET MY ANGER GET THE BEST OF ME AND I SAID SOMETHING I REALLY DIDN'T WANT TO OR MEANT TO SAY....I BROKE UP WITH HIM. IN JANUARY WE STARTING TALKING AGAIN AS FRIENDS AND WE MADE ARRANGEMENTS THAT I WOULD COME VISIT HIM IN INDIANA (IM IN CHICAGO) HE PAID FOR MY TICKET AND EVERYTHING I THOUGHT THIS WAS A START FOR US TO GET BACK TOGETHER BUT IT WASN'T HE TOLD ME HE WAS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE HE SAYS HE WAS TALKING TO ON A FRIENDS BASIS WHILE WE WERE TOGEHER! I LEFT THAT WEEKEND AND WE WERE OK STILL AS FRIENDS BUT I WOULD ASK HIM ON THE PHONE IF HE STILL LOVED ME AND HE KEPT ON TELLING ME NOT TO SAY THAT AND THAT HE WAS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE. I FOUND THIS VERY STRANGE THAT ALL HIS LOVE WENT AWAY IN LESS THAN A WEEK! BUT ANYWAY LATER ON EXACTLY MARCH 5TH I GOT A CALL FROM HIM BUT WHEN I ANSWERED HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING SO I HUNG UP, MINE YOU BETWEEN TIME HE WAS REALLY STUBBORN TOWARD ME WHEN I TRIED TO CALL HIM BUT HE CALLED ME AND NEVER SAID ANYTHING. I REALLY WANNA BE WITH HIM AND I ACTUALLY SENT HIM A LETTER EXPLAINING MY FEELING AND MEMORIES OF US IN IT I DONT KNOW EXACTLY WAHT TO DO BUT I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I WANT HIM TO UNDERSTAND AND MAYBE WE CAN BE TOGTHER AGAIN OR AT LEAST START OUT AS FRIENDS AND MOVE FROM THERE, BUT THE THING IS I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START OR WHAT TO SAY TO HIM TO MAKE US THE WAY WE USED TO BE...IN LOVE. CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE???

Welcome to the board poohbear00405,
STARTING TALKING AGAIN AS FRIENDS AND WE MADE ARRANGEMENTS THAT I WOULD COME VISIT HIM IN INDIANA (IM IN CHICAGO) HE PAID FOR MY TICKET AND EVERYTHING I THOUGHT THIS WAS A START FOR US TO GET BACK TOGETHER
Friends or not, too bad there wasn't a real discussion before you went to see him about the status of your relationship.
BUT IT WASN'T HE TOLD ME HE WAS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE HE SAYS HE WAS TALKING TO ON A FRIENDS BASIS WHILE WE WERE TOGEHER!
So basically, he was having an emotional affair, already betraying you before you broke up with him.
I LEFT THAT WEEKEND AND WE WERE OK STILL AS FRIENDS BUT I WOULD ASK HIM ON THE PHONE IF HE STILL LOVED ME AND HE KEPT ON TELLING ME NOT TO SAY THAT AND THAT HE WAS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
At this point, I'm not sure why you are still calling him and trying to get a statement of love from him. He's told you a few times that he's in love with someone else, so you've become the 'other woman' by hanging on.
I REALLY WANNA BE WITH HIM AND I ACTUALLY SENT HIM A LETTER EXPLAINING MY FEELING AND MEMORIES OF US IN IT I DONT KNOW EXACTLY WAHT TO DO BUT I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I WANT HIM TO UNDERSTAND AND MAYBE WE CAN BE TOGTHER AGAIN OR AT LEAST START OUT AS FRIENDS AND MOVE FROM THERE, BUT THE THING IS I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START OR WHAT TO SAY TO HIM TO MAKE US THE WAY WE USED TO BE...IN LOVE. CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE???
Let him come to you. If you continue pushing for what you want, well it comes across as needy and desperate and that's not very attractive.