i want to want it to work

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Registered: 09-16-2007
i want to want it to work
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Sun, 09-16-2007 - 1:11am

hey doc.


my husband and I have been married less than three years.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 8:11am
You are not in love with him, and he obviously has no respect for you. You already have the entire care of your little daughter, and it sounds like her father isn't particularly interested in her. How close are you to graduation?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 10:23am

I hate to have to bring this up, but is it at all possible he is having an affair?

What you have doesn't sound anything like a marriage.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 10:56am
It doesn't really sound like there's much of a marriage to even try to save. There's more that you're not saying isn't there? He's not just hanging out until 4, he's probably out doing drugs and/or heavy drinking. Normal people just don't act like he is, and they don't constantly get fired from jobs and get evicted. Your best bet is probably to move out and start trying to get your life in order without him. You might be able to get financial assistance or loans for school that might let you live more independently, or at least manage to get by with a roommate.