Since I was fired DH doesn't respect me

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Registered: 09-03-2007
Since I was fired DH doesn't respect me
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Thu, 09-13-2007 - 5:57pm

My husband of 4 years, together 7, has always been wonderful.

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Registered: 08-03-2007
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 6:44pm
It sounds like there is something else going on here. His reactions to all this seem very irrational. I could understand him being annoyed if you did something foolish and as a result it got you fired but since that is not the case I'm at a loss. Is it possible that his behavior is indicative of something else on his behalf? Sometimes people put the blame on others to cover their own guilt over something.
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Fri, 09-14-2007 - 2:06am

It sounds like your dh has a problem, not you. You are actually dealing with everything you have been through very well from the sounds of it, esp. with being Bipolar to top it all off. Is this causing some kind of serious financial difficulties for your family? Not that it would be your fault, don't get me wrong, but that could be what's pushing his buttons. Something certainly is.

This is the kind of serious relationship problem that may need some counseling to deal with unless he knows what his problem is and just isn't telling you at this point.

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Fri, 09-14-2007 - 11:58am

Welcome to the board lost_lady2007,


::All of this started occurring after I was let go by the other company, and he has admitted that it does make him feel differently about me.