I was put out pregnant in the rain
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I was put out pregnant in the rain
| Wed, 08-29-2007 - 12:47pm |
I just wanted to get some opinions from some people on my current situation...I am 22 weeks pregnant, and I dont' live with my boyfriend but I stay over at his place from time to time...Last night (Tuesday) when he got off from work I was there and had prepared dinner for him. The day before that, (Monday) I had wrecked my car, and the A/C stopped working due to the accident. While watching TV he got a phone call from an old friend saying "SHE" was in town and wanted to see him. I was in his bed stressing and crying about my car, and other things on my mind, and he comes and tells me that I need to leave because he is having company. Not only am I shocked, but hurt as well. It was pouring down rain last night, I was in tears, 5 months pregnant, recovering from car accident, and he tells me to go get in my car with no A/C in the rain and leave for his "FRIEND" to come over....I would just like to hear some opinions from other people telling me their thoughts

I had to reread your post to make sure I read it correctly. You did write "boyfriend" and not "ex-boyfriend" - so you are theoretically still with this guy? WHY? If he doesn't care that you were in a car accident - that even if it was a fender bender could have caused complications with the pregnancy then he's insensitive. If he's play romeo behind your back with another woman (the ONLY explanation, if she was a friend - he could have introduced you and there was no reason for them to be alone) then he's a cheater. So basically I don't know a single woman who would continue a r/ship with a man after this kind of behaviour. What is it that gives you that makes you put up with this?
Seriously think about this - do you want this man treating your future child this way? He's well on his way since he already treated his unborn child this way!
Good luck,
Dee
Welcome to the board mommy2b2008,
Okay, if she was really just a "friend" you won't have had to leave his house so she could come over. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone that cares so little for the woman carrying his child?
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It is time to stop being the victim. Do what is right by your child. If he is sleeping with another woman and hasn't dedicated himself to you then I don't see how you two can raise this child together.
Questions;
Is he excited about the child? Are you two planning for it together? Are you two exlusive nd is this the first time he has seen another woman that you know of? Did he tell you that they are just friends or did he not even try to play that game?
be the mature one here for your baby. Do you live alone or with parents?