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| Sat, 09-18-2004 - 3:30pm |
i need help on trying to see if i am over exageratting. i have been in a relationship for about a year now... i love my boyfriend but sometimes i doubt him. he has girls call him which he says they are friends, i can handle that. about a couple months ago... there has been this girl that has been calling him at all sorts of hours. i asked him who she was. he told me a friend. i took the time to call this girl and ask her what was her relationship with my boyfriend and if she knew he had a girlfriend. she was shocked and told me no she didn't know he had a girlfriends. that they were just co-workers. i said ok. now i have been insecure for those past months and i acuse him of cheating and creeping behind my back. sometimes he will act secretive on using the phone and will talk low sometimes.... i try to explain it to him that the way he acts sometimes looks suspicious. i am confused because i want my relationship to work and i know he is fed-up with all my accusations. he told me that we needed time apart because i was driving him crazy. he told me to figure out what i want and to figure what he has done so i could act like this. because we have been fighting too much. am i going crazy or is it that i am seeing things.... he always calls and i know where he is most of the time. i am always with him on the weekends because our week days we work and go to school. finishing our bachleors. i am also not trying to keep a close eye on him he just does it so i know where he is and he knows where i am most of the time. we don't check up on each other. we just like to communicate like that. i need advice what should i do....we haven't spoken in several days becasue he wants me to think about things. he does say here and there he wants things to work out. i have been hurt really bad in the past and my trust issues are sometimes there, but i need to work on them... but sometimes its hard to ignore it.
Edited 9/21/2004 2:29 pm ET ET by sweetivy07
Edited 9/21/2004 2:29 pm ET ET by sweetivy07

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