I'm being accused of CHEATING! Pls help!

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Registered: 12-19-2007
I'm being accused of CHEATING! Pls help!
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Wed, 12-19-2007 - 7:43pm

My boyfriends friends don't like me because I quit my job at their company.


I had a feeling they were out to get me and when I told my boyfriend he called me paranoid and said I have NOTHING to worry about! the other day my bf came over dropped of my stuff and said he's leaving me because his friends told him, that some guy at a party said I cheated on him!!! I remember talking to this guy, and we had a great chat, but I would NEVER EVER do that to him! This guy, and 3 of my bf's friends are telling this story that I cheated, and he believes them!


I don't know why this guy felt the need to lie, but yanno how guys get big egos and stuff, he even sent an email to my bf saying I gave him head and all this crap! I KNEW they were out to get me! My bf always says he loves me and he wants to marry me one day.


I have never given him a reason to think I might cheat on him! He doesnt want to believe they would lie to him, and he doest want to believe I would cheat eather!


What do I do??


Any help would be great, i am soooo lost = (

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 7:59pm

I was accused of cheating once, which I never did.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 8:48pm

'the other day my bf came over dropped of my stuff and said he's leaving me because his friends told him, that some guy at a party said I cheated on him!!!'


What kind of guy are you dating that

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Registered: 12-19-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 8:59pm

Well this doesn't sound very good, but after finding out from his friends, he went to the pub before hand, drank 6 double rye and cokes, drove to my house, accused me, and then he said "If you can get this guy to tell me it never happened, then well talk". So I found this guy on facebook, and said "Can you please confirm that nothing happened that night, and my boyfriend will let it go" so he emails my boyfriend with all the stories, instead of the truth.


This was 3 days ago, and this bf has been drunk all 3 days, and today his work sent him home because he hadent even turned his computer on at 11:30 am, and they found him just sitting there crying.


We talked last night and he said he is confused because he either has to believe that I cheated, or his best friends ALL lied to him...


I'm trying to be supportive, but I can't just keep telling him "Its not true" right?


He even asked me last night "Will you be willing to work on gaining back my trust if I forgive you?" and I was like why I havent done anything wrong????


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Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 10:45am

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