I'm devastating!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2004
I'm devastating!
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Thu, 03-11-2004 - 12:18am
Hi,

I have a friend who supposed to be my sex partner and nothing more!Suddenlly I feel like i'm in love with him!I feel so jealous when he talks about other girl and stuff like that!I don't know what should i do?!?!I've had a very bad love experience and no i'm afraid of this love!To tell you the truth i know that we can't be anything more than sex partners and i don't want him to know anything about my emotional feelings!But what should i do with myself!I really love him!Please help me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-12-2004 - 3:37pm
vafajoon...

Ask yourself one question:

What's more important...eternal love or just sex?

If it's the first option...you're with the wrong man...because SEX is all he wants.

If it's the second option...turn your emotions off and enjoy the moments...because THAT'S ALL YOUR GONNA GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Moments!

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Fri, 03-12-2004 - 3:42pm
What are your options?

1)Keep sleeping with him while you hold in your feelings.

2)Tell him how you feel and risk losing him as a sexual partner

3)tell him how you feel and possibly be surprised that he feels the same way too

4)Stop seeing him without telling him

What do you think?