im lost! need advice on ex-bf
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im lost! need advice on ex-bf
| Tue, 12-30-2003 - 8:50pm |
My boyfriend and I recently broke up about one month ago. He broke up with me because he said that he just didn't want a girlfriend right now. We are currently talking and are "friends". He says that he still has feelings for me. We also still say, "I Love You" to each other--but I won't say it unless he does. He still calls and we still hang out together. At one point, I decided to tell him that maybe we shouldn't talk any more because I couldn't handle being "just friends". He didn't like this idea too much and so I gave in and continued talking to him. On top of that, I stayed the night at his house Christmas night. It was cool because we both had fun. We ended up kissing and falling asleep on the couch together. Even though we had fun, this was probably a big no no. I don't know what to do. Somethings he does leads me to believe that he does want to get back together eventually. If he does I just don't know how long to wait around, or even if I should at all. I love him dearly so if I have to let go, it will be very hard. Please help me on what I should do, I am very confused and lost with this situation.
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| Tue, 12-30-2003 - 9:55pm |
well follow your heart. if you are not ok with being "just friends" but with benefits, then it's not fair to you if he doesn't intend to get back together. let go if you think thats what you need to do. letting go is hard but we all need to do that sometime in our lifetime. but if you think there's still chance, and hope, then wait. time will tell, but don't stay too long wasting your time.
