I'm obsessed with his past..
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I'm obsessed with his past..
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 6:05pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and things are great. I am the happiest i've ever been with anyone and I could honestly see myself settling down with him one day. The problem is that I can't get over his past. I almost obsess over it and find myself getting extremely jealous and angry inside whenever someone from his past comes up.
What doesn't make sense on my part though, is that he doesn't give me any reason at all to make me feel that way. If anything, he goes out of his way to make me feel even more secure, like if an ex happens to be around, because he knows exactly how I am.
Also, I know the root of my problem stemmed from a long-term relationship with a guy that cheated and constantly made me feel insecure about myself and our relationship. And I feel terrible bc my current boyfriend is suffering from things i've experienced in my past.
Basically, I need advice on how I can get over this. Though I rarely show him my jealousy, mostly bc I keep it in, I hate constantly obsessing over it. It's something that eats away at me inside and keeps me from truly enjoying what I have with him. Please HELP!
What doesn't make sense on my part though, is that he doesn't give me any reason at all to make me feel that way. If anything, he goes out of his way to make me feel even more secure, like if an ex happens to be around, because he knows exactly how I am.
Also, I know the root of my problem stemmed from a long-term relationship with a guy that cheated and constantly made me feel insecure about myself and our relationship. And I feel terrible bc my current boyfriend is suffering from things i've experienced in my past.
Basically, I need advice on how I can get over this. Though I rarely show him my jealousy, mostly bc I keep it in, I hate constantly obsessing over it. It's something that eats away at me inside and keeps me from truly enjoying what I have with him. Please HELP!
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| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 9:30pm |
It is time to seek counseling before you lose your boyfriend. Get a referral from your MD or health insurance.
