I'm scared he might cheat on me
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|Thu, 04-26-2012 - 2:59pm|
I've been seeing someone for the past month and a half. We've been exclusively seeing each other for a few weeks now and things have been going really well - we text each other all the time and he seem to really care about me and is always there to try and help me if I need anything - he calls me all the time and I'm the one he normally tells things to if somethnig is going on with him - sicne he met me that is. Even though it's only been a month and a half, things are going extremely well - esp considering how picky I am with guys.
My problem is that I ocassionally have minor panic attacks when I notice somethnig odd. A few weeks ago I was ready to break things off with him because I kept getting this vibe that he was gay/bi and he was only using me for emtional support (like my first love who cheated on me with other men while leaching on me emotionally). And then, last Thursday, he slept through our date because he barely slept at all the past two nights cos of work. I understood that and didn't make a big deal out of it. Today I noticed that he was online last Thursday on his fake dating profile (it's just a fake profile with no pic and false information that he'd used previously when he was single - probably to look up other profiles without letting them know that he viewed them). He never logs on there - but I find it sort of odd that he got on there the same day he "slept through" our date - especially considering how he'd told me he was sooo tired that day that he just passed out without warning. He sometimes sleeps for extended periods of time (esp following a busy couple of work days), where he'd completely disappear - this happens maybe once a wekk.
I KNOW I'm over reacting - or am I? I just can't help it. This seems to be the pattern whenever I've been played by a guy.....
My instinct is to break things off, but I'm fighting it real hard - I just wanted to vent somewhere. Please someone knock some sense into me. I sabotaged my last semi successful relationship by "breaking it off" with my ex every two weeks for trivial things. I think deep inside I don't want to be with someone. Or do you think I have any basis for my fears? Please be nice!!! :(