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| Wed, 05-30-2007 - 11:32pm |
Me and My Boyfriend Have been dating for 2 years now, were in a long distance relationship were hes in Tx and Im in Nc (Studying for My Degree for Computer Info Systems). Our relationship has been pretty much great until up to this point. Over the past months he has lost his job and had to move back with his parents (hes 24) he doesnt have much finanical stability and its really starting to hurt our relationship.He found a new job at Target where i know the pay isnt as great as his old just but a jobs a job right. The main component of our relationship is his cell phone so we can atleast communicate with each other since we cant see each other, but due to his lack of money it was turned off for a couple months.His phone has been turned off many time before also, he couldnt afford it for 6 months once and i faithfully waited for his return and of course he has returned. But this is now the 3rd time his phone has been cut off for a long amount of time.
There isnt much going on with me in the financial situation either due to me going to a university.
I guess im just trying to figure out if there is even a chance that our relationship will work and if we are really meant to be together. We love each other so much. And i know that after college ill have enough money for us both and well make it through everything.....hopefully if we can make it that long...
it almost seems that he should be with someone that is actually in his own state. I just want him to be happy.

Hi mmmbacardi and welcome to the board,
You might want to try the long-distance relationship support board here at iVillage.
Welcome to the board,
I can imagine your pain. It would be really hard to in a relationship where you can't see or talk to the other person. Do his parents have a computer? You could email each other back and forth or instant message or something.
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