I'm so sad....
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I'm so sad....
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 11:17am |
I literally can't stop crying. BF and I have been dating for 10 months. The problem is that I have fallen love with him and I don't think he feels as deeply for me. It hurts that he doesn't love me the way I love him. I do I just sit back and be casual like him? I don't want him to think I am this lovesick complicated person.
Saturday night his kids went to a sleepover, he's a single dad, and he didn't even call me. He knoew that my kids were gone also for the evening. I was heartbroken. I couldn't believe he didn't even call me. How do I stop feeling so sick about this? He's wonderful to me when were together but I get so depressed when he doesn't call.
Saturday night his kids went to a sleepover, he's a single dad, and he didn't even call me. He knoew that my kids were gone also for the evening. I was heartbroken. I couldn't believe he didn't even call me. How do I stop feeling so sick about this? He's wonderful to me when were together but I get so depressed when he doesn't call.
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| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 1:43pm |
Being in love with him doesn't make you complicated but holding your feelings in does. Tell him how you feel and find out where he stands. You need to know before you and your children get emotionally attached to him.
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 1:59pm |
Have you talked to him about it? Guys show emotions different than us gals...sometimes they need a little prodding to get anything out of them. Sit down and discuss your concerns WITH HIM, you'll never know till you do and playing the wait-and-see-game is no fun either. You just might be surprised at what you'll find out. One conversation won't make you a "lovesick complicated person". And since you've been together for 10 months it may be time to have a chat to let you both know where you stand in the relationship. 10 months isn't a long time in the retrospect of things but for a new relationship it is. It may have been enough time for you to fall head over hills in love with him but he may need a little more time to adjust to things. Considering he is a single father-usually they have a busy lifestyle. He may have had a prior plan the night his kids went out and didn't think to tell you about it. I'm sure it is nothing to be worried about-try not to "make a mountian out of a molehill" as they say. Sit down and tell him what you told us. Find out where he stands on the issue and go from there. If he's not as committed as you--find out if he thinks he ever will be and go from there. He may be and then again he may not be. At least you'll get an idea of where you'll stand 2 years from now if your still together. You'll know if he thinks he CAN commit by then if he's not already now and if not by then--then you know you'll still be waiting. Honesty is the best policy so be honest with him...hopefully he'll return the favor and not lead you on. Best wishes and good luck! sweetnopichick
