Imade a huge mistake
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Imade a huge mistake
| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 8:59am |
My bf of a year and a half couldn't decide if he was going to move with me once our lease was up or move back home. We discussed it last week and he couldn't even give me a straight answer as to what he wanted except that he was uncomfortable with me because I want a committment and he doesnt. I was willing to work it out but with no clear answer as to what he wanted after this long and a perfect relationship I got fed up. The next day I called him and we got into a little argument about it again so I told him to go. He did. A week later we talk a lot but I feel like I made the biggest mistake ofmy life. Hes miserable and I am miserable but he is ready to forget me! This time apart is needed because we need to get back on our feet but I feel like he has just given up. He told me he wasnt going to move out on me but since i told him to he did. I need him in my life so I dont know what to do now. Give it time?
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| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 11:34am |
He did not move out because you told him to no matter what you think. He moved out because you want a committment and he does not want one. Do not continue the agony by trying to get a committment out of him that he does not want to give. Break up and get over him. You will find a man ready for committment. This man either is not ready or does not want to committ to you.
| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 12:52pm |
You didn't make a huge mistake. He doesn't want a commitment and if you stayed and he "gave in" and made a commitment he'd eventually resent it and you. Now that you are apart try to start dating again, you'll find someone who does want a commitment. Good luck.
