Insecure in a Changing Relationship,HELP
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Insecure in a Changing Relationship,HELP
| Thu, 10-07-2004 - 3:43pm |
I've been dating Stu for about 10 months now,He has always treated me like gold.He got a new job under his father which requires him to be out on the road about 2-3 weeks out of every month or more. I was going to join him, but I tried it out and hated the job...even worse I got into a huge fight with his father. I don't even really like his father at all anymore. And now he is around his father all the time, which is not good because his father is a pig-he treats his wife like she's his servant,and flirts shamelessly with other women all the time (in front of her)! Anyway, lately it seems like Stu is trying to be more like his father- doesn't call as often, seems so uninterested in me. I feel so insecure in this relationship now. I hate that. We had been talking about marriage for months and one night we got into an arguement and he said that this new job of his would be taking a step back in our relationship. We broke up for a few hours, only because I called him crying, and he asked me to come back home. Ever since then, I feel like I am walking on egg-shells with him. I've never felt so desperate before.
My question is: how do I keep him interested in our relationship, how can I bring those sparks back when he is usually miles away, working right under his father (who probably hates me now). Should I be aloof, maybe I am being to insecure about this?
Please give me some advice if you can!
My question is: how do I keep him interested in our relationship, how can I bring those sparks back when he is usually miles away, working right under his father (who probably hates me now). Should I be aloof, maybe I am being to insecure about this?
Please give me some advice if you can!
