Insecurity & Jealousy is ruining my life-Help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2012
Insecurity & Jealousy is ruining my life-Help!
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Sat, 01-14-2012 - 8:05pm

I want to first explain that I have been diagnosed (and am on medication) with major depression

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009

A person who doesn't "feel good about themself" is the same

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
It sounds like all these female friends he has are always going to be a source of insecurity and distress for you as long as you stay in this relationship. Are you overeacting? Well it really depends on what he is calling and texting all these other women about. A lot of women cannot accept their BF having close friendships with other females like that. Since this is such a huge source of problems for you I think maybe your just not compatible. It's not like this is going to change anytime unless he's willing to drop all thess female friends.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
You have indicated SO MANY reasons to get rid of him! He is never going to be the man you need him to be. Please say good bye to him now, before you get pregnant and feel you HAVE to stay.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2012

Thank you so much for the comments.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004

It is hard to do it, but after it's done, please take steps to block him from communicating with you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

I agree w/ the others--the issue isn't whether or not you should be jealous.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2012

What do I do if he is living in my apartment and won't leave?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008

Is the apartment lease in both your names, or in your name only?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
You may just have to pay the 150.00. I think that's better than him moving out and keeping the phone where he could run the bill up enourmously. I would call the phone co. It could be as long as you keep the original phone on the plan you signed up for and want to drop the secondary phone they may work with you on this, maybe only charge you half of the cancellation fee. You never know until you call and try to negotiate with them. I would.
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Registered: 05-18-2009
I am deeply concerned for you. It has only been six months and he is showing more than enough signs of being an abusive person.... The answer should be obvious and you should have left him already. I know you know better and you want better for yourself, but there may be a very serious issue with self esteem and self worth evidenced by the fact that you haven't left yet. I hope you will do that as soon as possible and speak with a professional about how you feel about yourself... Good luck

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