Internet Porn-exceptable or overreacting

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Registered: 10-09-2004
Internet Porn-exceptable or overreacting
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 10:10pm
Is it exceptable to any of you out there for your husband to constantly view internet porn? I am at my whits end with this and can't take much more!! If anyone can lend a helping hand or thought I would greatly appreciate it!!!

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Registered: 05-29-2003
Sat, 10-09-2004 - 10:32pm
No, it wouldn't be acceptable to waste what precious time we have on earth sitting in front of a screen getting the hornies. The time he spends looking at this garbage is time he should spend with his wife and children, or with improving himself or his community. Don't buy into the modern myth that pornography is harmless and that "all men do it." Wrong and misleading on both counts.

Hop over to the "Families Damaged by Pornography" Board and see how harmless porn is.
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Registered: 02-14-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 1:08am
Read my post... and lemme know what you think.
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Registered: 09-26-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 2:00am
I just responded to the thread mentioned on the previous page. I find watching porn while his mate is unhappy with it, to be disrespectful. There are plenty of people out there that love it, male and female. If you are with someone that watches it and knows it hurts you then he has no respect for your feelings and should be relplaced with a man that does not want to hurt you or make you uncomfortable. Likewise, there is a woman that would suit him out there that would love it. Life is short. Everyone should find a mate that has the same core values or your setting yourself up for a life of unhappiness. Personally I find porn disgusting so I find dates amoung those that feel the same way.
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 3:17am
i guess the question is - what is "constantly"? i think that porn has always been out there, in one form or another. and i think that most men and many women enjoy looking at porn. if your husband is addicted to porn- that is a different story, and you need to deal with it like any other addiction.
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Registered: 08-08-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 1:03pm
I f it makes you upset or uncomfortable in any way- NO it is NOT okay. It is immoral- My H thinks it is okay but I absolutly do not.
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Registered: 10-09-2004
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 8:32pm
Unfortunately, it seems as though it is every waking moment... In the beginning of our 3 year relationship, it was all good. I had my own collection of adult movies, however, as our relationship progressed, I found that he started viewing it when I fell asleep on the couch, then went to him chatting online with other women, then I spoke my mind...he said he would stop and yet there he is even now sneaking it every single moment he can...I continue to express how I feel and to no avail, I lose every time!!