is it a break or a break up?
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is it a break or a break up?
| Mon, 04-23-2007 - 2:56pm |
i've been with my b/f for almost 3 years.he was my first and my only true love.we've been arguing alot like for the past year over nothi9ng at all sometimes.i love him with all my heart and he says he loves me too.but yesturday he said we needed a break.he said that we were over for now and it was just a break.i'm not allowed to be with any other guy or he won't come back.i'm confused as to what this means?is he just being nice by telling me we will get back together when i become independent?or does he actually want to break up with me but deosn't want to hurt me?i agree with the independent thing cause i have been completely dependent on him for the past 2 and a half years.I've never pitche din any money for rent or groceries or bills.Help me please i'm losing my mind.
thanks
T.R
thanks
T.R

Welcome to the board labellavita010,
Is he allowed to date anyone else right now? If not, than this is a break. If so, than it is a breakup.
You mention not pitching in any money for rent, bilss, etc.
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Welcome to the board labellavita,
Unfortunately people fall out of love all the time. Relationships need to be nutured to continue to grow and that includes communication.