IS IT CHEATING??
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IS IT CHEATING??
| Thu, 04-22-2004 - 10:23am |
HI ,WELL LET ME GET STARTED. MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAS BEEN DATING FOR 4 MONTHS NOW AND I REALLY CARE ABOUT HER. SHE BE ON THIS WEBSITE CALLED BLACKPLANET AND ONE DAY I WAS WONDERING DO SHE BE TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS ON IT, SO I MADE ANOTHER PAGE AND I SENT HER A NOTE AND SHE SENT ONE BACK SAYING SHE DONT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND SHE LOOKING AND HASN'T FOUND THE RIGHT ONE YET. SO WHEN I READ IT I CALLED HER AND TALKED TO HER ABOUT IT AND SHE TRYED TO LIE AND TURN IT ON ME AND THEN SHE WAS SAYING SHE DIDNT MEAN TO DO IT. SO MY COUSIN SENT HER A NOTE AND SHE DID THE SAME THING AND I SHE SAID SHE WAS SORRY THE SAME. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I SAY WITH HER?

In an answer to your question: I think it does qualify as cheating or at least looking to cheat. I think you already know this too. Look at it like this: at least you are finding this out now as it's only been four months. Imagine how it would be that much more painful if you were together for a year and then you found this out. There are lots of other women out there who want what you want, who are looking for a woman with commitment values. If that's what you are looking for then you are wasting your time with this girlfriend of yours and you could be passing up a more geniune opportunity.
Good luck with it! :)
Jennifer
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