is it normal ??

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Registered: 09-28-2005
is it normal ??
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Sun, 06-03-2007 - 12:34pm
hello ,
so i have a q .. is it normal to feel overwhelmed by ur relationship ??
me and my bf have been together for 2 yrs... we luv eachother so much and i cant imagine my life without him but its been an annoying and stressful time for us lately and we have been fighting a lot and sometimes on stupid things,and im getting even more stressd out by that fact and sometimes i just want to break free and just be on my own and live in peace and think of only myself...but i dnt want to breakup or stay away from him..
so is this normal or is there somthing wrong with us or me ??!!
help
thank you
byeeez
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: sasy19
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 5:49pm

I'd say there's something wrong.

In my experience, a good relationship is a pleasure to be in. Rather than overwhelming you, it gives a sense of peace and contentment.

Perhaps it would help if you told us more about what's going wrong. What are you fighting about?

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In reply to: sasy19
Mon, 06-04-2007 - 9:22am
we r fighting abt stupid things .. but mostly he is getting so angry abt anything and everything,and whenever somthing happens he puts the fault on me,and he is getting very controlling.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: sasy19
Mon, 06-04-2007 - 5:49pm

Welcome to the board sasy19,


I would say you are feeling overwhelmed because that is your gut telling you to get out of the relationship. For me a guy having anger problems, blaming me for everything, and being controlling would be deal breakers.


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Registered: 09-28-2005
In reply to: sasy19
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 6:39pm

hiiiiiiiiiiiiii,
jst wanted to tell u guys that i talked with him and i told him i cant take it anymore and he should watch what he does but im there for him and i know he is going through a rough time and i wanna help but he shudnt put it all on me so we worked it out and everything is g8 now :D

byeeee u all

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: sasy19
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 6:59pm
Thanks for the update. Glad to hear things are going much better.
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